Expectation from others is root cause of pain in relationship ...

We do good ..we expect same from others ...this is where true problem lies ..

Sun gives sunlight ..but never expects others to worship ..Shiva never expects same crowd like mahashivratri every day , even though his grace n blessings are same all 365 days ...trees give shade n fruits but no expectation in return ..

That's the reason our ancestor worship Sun ..Shiva ..trees etc ..

The moment we drop expectation from others .. we too come into the category where people start worshiping with respect n gratitude ..

Expect from self ...it will take us up new height of achievement ...expect from our health , we will lead medicine free life ...expect from our brain , we will soar national height n become biggest whatever you do ..

Set the target for self ...increase it every week ..every month ...n see the new leader in you emerging ..because our expectation with self can make you touch the sky..

Expectation from others will give only pain , frustration , tears , breakoff , aloness , anger ,n feeling of revenge ...

Such things are slow poison ..which destroys us permanently from root level ..

Son, daughter ,spouse , parents , friends , relatives , office collegue have very very limited role in our life ....they are separate identity ..separate soul ...they cannot n never be our mirror identity ...n expecting from them returns of your good deeds is just degrading our value in our eyes ..

When we do charity to any beggar ...we do it without any expectation ...that process fills the heart with joy n gratitude ..

Because we know , beggar do not have capacity n ability to return your good deeds towards you ..

Live like king ..think like a king ...act like a king ...just keep "donating" good deeds who so ever comes in need to you ..

You are capable ..that's why people take / seek ur support ..

They cannot return your "donation " , because they are not king like you ...

Expectation can be permanently drop from your body thru consistent "Meditation " & "self healing " ...

You are divine child ...divinity dwells in your heart ...you are divine ...you are precious ...you are supernatural creation of Divine !!!

Jai Hind!!
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