*Is your child is in 10th / 12th Std ???*

If your child is appearing for 10th / 12th board ...than it's not just crucial turning point for your child future but it's also test of our parenting !!

This is the only time , when all the eyes of family - friend - relatives are on that poor innocent child , *who is under pressure to perform more than their parents - friends - relatives board marks* !!!!

The result of the child is the *prestige ego* matter for their parents to show up in the society ...

We sometime behave as biz man rather than parents , expecting best returns on our 10 year educational investment ...

What all we not do to satisfy our desire ...

Shankapuspi to badam dudh ....

school teaching to best coaching centre ....

normal easy study to memory mug up technique ....

And above all ..constant monitoring / supervision ...comparison with other kids marks etc etc ...

Your child is a mango fruit ....n child of your neighbour is orange fruit....two fruits cannot be compared ...

Your son is destined to be the prime minister & run the nation ...don't force him to be the NASA scientists which your neighbour child is born for !!

Both have equally important role to play on this planet ...

Your ways of parenting may lead your child - *stress , dipression , psychological issues , low performance, health issue , and even suicidal case* !!

Work n focus on these parameters , how we can blossom the inner talent of child by making him -

Stress free

Dipression free

Negative thought free

Break old pattern / belief system

Realise his inner potential

Get inspired to perform rather than forced to perform

Addiction free ..

And Handel family expectation in positive and healthy way ..

Memory technique ...study techniques are short cut just to win the three hour paper game ....

Teach him how to Handel life game ...show him the purpose n reason of appearing in exam ...

He will not only excel ..but outperform your expectation ..!!

Some plants needs more water .
Some less ..

Some plants needs more sunlight ..
Some less ..

Some plants takes time to bear the fruits ..
Some only deliver fragrant flowers ..

Identify you are catering to which plant ...n which procedure to follow to nourish that plant ...thats the parenting !!!!

( Session from upcoming : *MIND POWER WORKSHOP : No theory - only practicals* for students @ Chinchwad, Pune on 9/12 )

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Jai Hind!!

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